Finding Trying Hard EmotionallyCreated By oliviasmum on 04 June 2008

Hi everyone,
just joined this group after readind some of the posts and you realise how many people have gone through the same as you or even more. I've had 2 miscarrages and also lost a baby when I was 21 weeks pregnant, this was the hardest thing I've ever went through as I had to deliver my little boy knowing he wouldn't be breathing or survive. I'm know 5 weeks pegnant and really worried that something bad will happen again but I've got to think positively and hope and pray that I'll have a beautiful bundle of joy this time. My thoughts go out to everyone else in this kind of situation and hope you all have healthy happy pregnancies with a beautiful baby at the end up.

We have been trying for 19 months now. Not even a maybe! I don't know if I'm early or late because I'm still not in a regular cycle... Went to the GP and got no support what so ever, just told these things don't happen over night and there was nothing they could do. The idea of them giving me tablets or something to help resulted in a laugh.

I had to beg for tests to make sure everything was ok, they came back "normal". Although, to find out the results I had to ring the GP who then told me to come in (2 days later)... Those days were the longest yet. When I sat down, he then said so what can I do for you? That's how much thought went into that appointment.

We are 22 and 23, both healthy and happy in a really strong relationship. We should have "good odds" as every website says...

Family and friends are unknowingly putting on so much pressure by saying "oh, you will be next.." or "when are you going to hurry up, eh?"...Each month is just getting harder, especially when so many of our friends are announcing their happy news...

I just dont know what more we can do.

Sorry everyone for the moaning... Good luck and happiness to you all :-) x

been 12 months now god this hard im always three days early, always come on during the night and im only ever on for three day. was dur on sat night didnt come till sunday evening. i had started to get my hopes up which i know i shouldnt of but its so hard when its the only thing i want.
but thn i came on and my day came crashing down. feeling better about it now and ready to try again fingers crossed its happens soon.

i know how you feel. this is only my third month of trying and AF due today, hasnt arrived yet but sure its going to as i have the pains arrr. I Feel for all you hunnys who have been trying for even longer as it's so difficult when all you want is your own baby and you feel so ready for it. It will come in time ladies im sure xx i pray it happens for us all soon ;-) xxx

Hi all, I just wanted to say thank you to this group for being so open! I am a very emotional person normally.. but every month that goes by (Its been 18 months now) without becoming pregnant is so hard to cope with. Like many of you ladies, so so many of my friends are pregnant or have recently had children. My husband and myself are so ready and excited to be parents again. We have a 6 year old, by my previous partner. So really, its our first baby, my second. Even my son is so so ready to be a big brother. He is the most caring, loving boy I have ever met and we know he will make a fantastic big brother. Sending my love to all you are trying and health and happiness to you all xxxxxxxxx