First-time mums!Created By LittleEm21 on 31 July 2008

Hello all, Thought I would start a first-time mums group because I find it hard to talk to other mums being the only one of my friends to have a baby! It's also a scary time, where I find myself worring about every little thing! If you feel the same and want to chat about any concerns or share tips, join this group and air your views!

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iluvmypickle

iluvmypickle  

Stage: 40 Week Old
Location: East Sussex, United Kingdom
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kaffyo76  

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happymeesh  

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loopyrie
Reply loopyrie 5 months ago
I know the feeling but it seems like forever and then bam, its just not far to go!

I'm 28 weeks....
HannahB123
Reply HannahB123 7 months ago
well i gavebirth 2 weeksago an it wasnt the best experience but id do it again lol...id recommend the epidural its gr8 an then u dnt feel them stitching u up if u need stitches lol xxx
I also had my son about 2 weeks ago, I had a home waterbirth and only used the birthing pool and gas&air. I had contractions for about 4 hrs before the midwife arrived and used a spacehopper (couldn't get hold of a birth ball) to rock on and slow breathing techniques, When the midwife arrived she set up the gas&air, which at first I didn't like, but once the pushing stage started it was a godsend, would recommend the water as as soon as I got into the pool the contractions were way less noticeable and was still able to use gas&air. all in all my labour was 8 1/2 hrs, with 3 1/2 hrs of pushing out a healthy baby boy weighing in at 8lb 15oz. I delivered the placenta naturally about 40 minutes later and the cord was cut after this. The midwives both said it was a very good birth especially so as it was my first. I did get a couple of tears and had a lot of back pain as he was facing front rather than back, but I didn't need any stitches and just over two weeks later I feel great and have little to no bleeding with the after-pains ending after about a week and a half. The day of the birth I didn't do much other than look at him and cuddles with him and hubby but the following day we went out for a walk and the day after we went out food shopping. Would recommend a home waterbirth to anyone. x x
hayley88
Reply hayley88 7 months ago
i think you know when you are ready to buy bits for baby, its never to early im now 4 months and now just need clothes the reason i have everything else is cos i had the money lol, i cant wait till my baby is here but im still really worried about what to expect in labour !! xx
well i gavebirth 2 weeksago an it wasnt the best experience but id do it again lol...id recommend the epidural its gr8 an then u dnt feel them stitching u up if u need stitches lol xxx
kac1985x
Reply kac1985x 7 months ago
i think you know when you are ready to buy bits for baby, its never to early im now 4 months and now just need clothes the reason i have everything else is cos i had the money lol, i cant wait till my baby is here but im still really worried about what to expect in labour !! xx
stephuz100
Reply stephuz100 8 months ago
hi all, my names lou i live in leicester am 13 weeks pregnant and cant wait! i just cant stop looking at babygrows ect. and am wondering is it too early to start buying a few bits?! xx
hiya!!! i couldnt wait either, im about 18weeks now, n struggled to last until id had my 12 week scan! lol! ive got a few bits, but just trying to spread it out..mainly cuz of cost, but also cuz i dont want it to be over with too sooon!! gota be better than leaving it til last minute neways!! x
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