Trying Again After MiscarriageCreated By NCTBabyx on 28 August 2008

Hi

I found out that i was pregnant at 6 weeks & both my husband and i were estatic as we'd been trying for 22 months.

I've just miscarried at 10 weeks and feel totally devastated. Luckily i have a very loving and understanding husband but the thought of trying again petrefies me.

Any advice? x

hello there. i had my first mc aug 2008, i was 12 weeks. i had 2 go into hos for dnc which resulted in me having my utarus punchered,i was in hospital on a drip for a week after due to infection. it was a really hard time. we now have been trying ever since and no luck yet. iv just started seeing my consultant again and she wants me to have a camera in my tubes. forgot the tec term for it. iv also just had my bloods done to see if im ovulating, dont understand them at all. she's suggested i have accupuncher as she thinks im too stressed but i just cant get babies out my head.

hi ladies well had my first af since miscarriage came 4weeks to the day what a reminder so i will start ttc,but am sure my little angel will watch over me. Babymania sorry to her of your loss its heart felt wish you all the luck keep my finger crossed but not my legs lol.Just read what greekgirl had written bout being emotional its a emotional thing that has happen to us,we need to grieve and crying is part of it i understand about the friends both of mine have just had babies i just want to be by myself even though i know its not good for me, we have to stay strong and positive so we can have our babies good luck to us x

Hi Ladies The last time i was logged on to this site i had just discovered i was pregnant, my husband & I were over the moon as we'd been trying for approx. 9 months and were beginning to worry. Sadly we had a miscarriage, this was confirmed at our 12 week scan - that was almost 5 weeks ago. I'm not sure if it's just me being over emotional but i can't pull myself together; i cry all the time, i can't work, don't want to see my good friends (2 are pregnant, 2 have just given birth). My husband has been so patient with me but i think he feels like i should be moving forward, i thought i was but got my 1st period since the mc yesterday (which is exceptionally painful!)and feel like i've taken 2 steps back again! We want to try again but i'm terrified of this happening again. We want to start our own family so badly. It's nice to hear encouraging stories of others that have gone onto have babies, so if anyone has any words of encouragement please let me hear them. I'm so sorry for all of your losses & am sprinkling some baby dust your way xxx.

hi ive just joined this group aswell and i know exactly how u feel i fell prgnant after 6 months trying and was over the moon when i found out i was expecting but unfortunatly i misscarried at just 9weeks (to twins as i later found out) and was absolutly heartbroken and it felt like ages waiting for my first cycle ihad to wait 6weeks but it felt like a lot longer i am now desperste for another baby and also feel like i lost a part of me when i lost my babies.