Still trying for a babyCreated By Georgie2009 on 03 March 2009

hi hun dont lose hope it took me a year to concieve my girls and 4 months to get pregnant with my last child everyone is different if it was made easy for everyone to get pregnant the world would be over run with kids dont give up i too have been trying for baby no4 for 9 months good luck

Hi , feeling a bit down lately ,so thought I would put into words how Im feeling. been trying for 9 long months to have a baby . 4 people within the family and close friends have all had their babies and its just so hard emotionally to see all the babies . Sure Im very happy for them but Im feeling ... Yes Jealous !!! Im asking myself why cant I be pregnant . My younger sister is due any day now and although I cant wait to meet my new Niece or Nephew Im angry because it should be me . I think I am just a bit bitter at the moment and needed to get that off my chest . Sometime life is just so unfair , and what also winds me up to the max is these women who have countless children and dont look after them properly they get taken into care yet these women carry on having children and what life do these poor souls have . beaten abused and drugged we hear about it all too often these days and its a very sad and evil world sometimes . sorry about the moan , I feel slightly better now . Good luck to all u Gals out there xxx

hi all,
im 22 n me n my hubby have been tryin for nearly a year in aug. we already have a baby girl who is 21 months.i just dont understand y its takin soo long im glad i found this website as it has been a help already. for all u ladies that have had m/c it must be soo hard and u r so brave u just gotta keep tryin n maybe we will all have our little ones soon xxx

anna xx

I know exactly how you feel Lou, I have only been trying for 5 cycles but I have also had a M/C. I am sick of my pregnant friends (who seem to fall pregnant at the though of a baby) telling me how sick and tired they are of being pregnant and how much it is changing their lives. They do not know I have lost one and I do not want them to know but I do sometimes want to shout at them and tell them how lucky they are and they should cherish every moment! Hope all goes well for you in the future, fingers and toes crossed for everyone but sorry I will not cross my legs as well!

Thanks

hi georgie i have had 6 m/c 4 in the last 14 months so i know how you feel its such a emotional roller coaster and seems to take over your life !!!! i have had tests done and there is no medical evidence to say why i m/c just bad luck as the consultant put it. anyway i am still trying and i hoping for a BFP this week ... good luck to you xx