Dads called in to help on overstretched maternity wards

Dads called in to help on overstretched maternity wards

The role of the father on maternity wards has increased dramatically as a result of staff shortages, a new study has shown. Midwives are too busy to help guide new mothers through those crucial first hours of motherhood and give advice on breast-feeding and picking up the new-born, the study said.

Some units are so understaffed that fathers are being drafted in to stay overnight and carry out duties normally performed by maternity staff, such as bathing. Whilst this is bound to increase the initial bond between dad and baby, it has left mothers anxious that they aren’t being equipped with the knowledge they need before they leave the hospital.

The survey, by the National Childbirth Trust, uncovered widespread reports of staff being rude, patronising and unfriendly to the mothers under their care. Some mothers were scared to go to the lavatory or have a shower because they didn’t think anyone would be able to look after their baby.

Bath Hospital in Wiltshire has just announced the success of its Partners Staying Overnight project, which is now a permanent fixture on their wards. The scheme allows dads or another family member to sleep over with the new mum after she gives birth, increasing the partner’s involvement in the early hours of the child’s life. There are no plans at this stage to take the project nationwide, but it seems stretched midwives could use the extra help.

Latest figures show that there is a shortage of almost 3,000 midwives in Britain, and overstretched maternity units are struggling to keep pace with rising birth rates. More than 60 per cent of maternity units were forced to close their doors to women in labour at some point last year because they were full.

A Department of Health spokesman said: ‘The Government is working with the Royal College of Midwives, the NHS and other partners to design new provider networks to improve the quality of maternity care and extend the choices available to every pregnant woman.”

How did you find your stay on the maternity ward? We’re the midwives friendly or unhelpful? Do you feel you got the support you needed? We’d love to hear your stories!

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By Staybee 1 years ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
with my 1st birth his dad stayed overnight in the armchair! with my 2nd birth he stayed over for 3nights to help because i had a c-section! he was alowed to stay all day & all night everyday! theres visitng hours ect for everyone else but fathers and older siblings can come & go as they please!
By mummytwice83 1 years ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News LikePRO
the hospital where i had my two kids were fantastic (labour ward was,not so much maternity ward). I would hv loved for my husband to stay in the first night.Why wont they allow it?
By mamaoftwo 1 years ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
my hospital was fab with my 2, i dint stop in at nite so hubby cudnt av stopped xx
By custardfly 1 years ago Newbie ChatPRO News Like
with my first coz he was early i got loads of support he wasnt is scbu but it was still nice to have alot of help .. with my second i was the only one in the delivery and in the ward after and even so i saw the midwife in labour but once i went to the ward i saw 1 twice.. my 3rd i was out so quick didnt have chance to see anyone.. but was happy with the care i did get.. all my children ahve been born early hours of the morning so my husband has been able to stay with me all from having baby to going home!! xx
By LucyRuth 1 years ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
I had such a bad experience with my first in hospital I had homebirths after that! The midwives were hopelessly over stretched-my OH nearly delivered the baby after I was left in full labour for 3 hours. I did not get any breastfeeding support and stopped trying after 2 weeks. If my OH had stayed overnight he would have been as clueless as I was!
By monkeymoo 1 years ago Newbie Chat
It would have been great to have my partner stay the night as I'd had a section and could hardly move. I was in hospital for 4 days, the care I received from every midwife on duty was outstanding. I really couldn't fault it.

Can I just say, I wouldn't have expected a midwife to watch my son while I went for a wee or a shower. I (as all the other mothers did) wheeled him into the bathroom with me.
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